this morning #2020.
this morning, he surprised me with the strength of his handshake. it was obvious that he was sending me a message. it’s been three years since he’s been home & in that time, he’s bulked up a bunch. as such, he now feels comfortable enough to give me a handshake that says “good to see you, big bro. check it out. i no longer have to put up with your abuse.” once he’d released his grip, he let out a hearty laugh & gave me a hearty slap on the ass as he passed by on his way to the kitchen. i stood by the front door stunned by the reality of the power shift. from the other room, there were cries of “oh my! look at you!” & “wow! mr muscles over here!” i followed him into the kitchen. went right to the fridge & grabbed a beer.