this morning #859.

this morning, while some said i was settling, i was fine with being able to say that, after all the crap i’d had to go through to get to this place in my life, i was finally settling down with a man who i loved most of the time. most of the time, he made me happy. most of the time, he accepted me as his equal. hell, he even looked up to me every so often, sometimes let me take the lead. was he the complete package? no. far from it. it took me a solid thirty-five years to learn this. NOBODY is the complete package. if anyone ever says their significant other is, tell them to settle down for crying out loud. perfect people don’t exist. all we can hope is for someone who tries to be as perfect as possible.